Even so, i still found out many interesting things from the video! For example, now i understand why the Japanese people never fail to nod their heads whenever the other party says something. In the past, I simple felt obliged to nod back and wondered why they are so crazily agreeable. The man in the video explained that it is just a gesture that the Japanese people use to indicate that they are constantly listening to the speaker. However, this does not necessary mean that they agree to the speaker's point of view.
In Singapore, we share our own unique culture too. Even though we can be considered to be just a country of immigrants, like America, we have our own iconic 'MnMs' too. Anyone who cannot complete this sentence below is definitely not a Singaporean, or at least one who hasn't lived in Singapore in the recent 10years. 'PCK Private Limited, best in Singapore, Johor and ___________' I am sure you have already completed the sentence in your head by now ;)
Digress: Then again, some neighbouring countries do play our local TV as well. So I don't support the idea of asking this at the immigrations!
When we got on to discuss about Hofstede's Dimensions of Cultural Variability, I also learned about the various variables used to analysis a culture. Masculinity VS Femininity, Individualism VS Collectivism, blah blah, etcetera.. Other than analysing a culture with some of these tools, basically anyone can also use them to analyse themselves. Some traits for myself are towards femininity, individualism, high tolerance for uncertainty...... i think.
Basically, I feel that the conclusion of either trait polarity for one society, is only a collation of characteristics of different individual behaviours under different circumstances. Problems with overgeneralisation and accuracy of these conclusions are not uncommon. An example would be that we can't really conclude whether Singapore is a high or low tolerance state. We hate rise in our bills (who wouldn't) and constantly express out discontent about these hikes in the media. However, we also try to understand the government's rationale for implementing these hikes and NEVER protested on the street for more than 20years.
Another example more close to heart would be the magnanimousness of Singapore students. Singapore students may be very achievement orientated - a masculine trait, but most students do not spend all days cooped up at home studying, unlike many other parts of Asia. Volunteering - a feminine trait - is a huge part of many Singapore students' lives. In the midst of their busy lifestyle, they do not forget those who need a helping hand.
All in all, I would say that understanding a whole new culture is never easy. With the influx of more foreigners nowadays, it is even more important for us, the host, to be more tolerant of them. Not to mention it is also important for them to adapt to our Singapore culture as well. I hope the next time I order for a plate of Mee Siam mai hum, the foreigner stall helper would actually understand what I'm ordering, without me translating it into english :)
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i think it would be interesting to see if there are equal number of males and females volunteers or are there proportionately more females than males. =)
I think the reason that no one has ever protested in the streets is that it is much too troublesome to do so! With laws on the unions and general characteristic of Singaporeans being risk averse, few Singaporeans see the point or any benefit in protesting. Sometimes, I think we complain just to get it off our chest rather than wanting to protest against something. Somehow we know that whatever is enforced can't be changed by us anyway. The political apathy of Singaporeans!
I feel a little ashamed as after 10 years in Singapore, I still can't complete the sentence with the blank. It seems that I'm not very culturally adaptive.
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